How to feel Sexy Everyday

Being sexy is all about feeling sexy - on set of a luxury intimate photoshoot with Juliette’s Diary.

There’s a secret to being totally, utterly, jaw-droppingly sexy and, once you learn it, it’s life-changing. The simple truth? Being sexy is all about feeling sexy.

Confidence is the most radiant thing you can wear - and you can wrap yourself in it right now. Once you feel sexy, you become sexy. The rest will all follow. 

So, how do you make it happen? Here are some of our favourite steps to feel your sexiest self Every. Single. Day… 

Put on your one-stop sexy booster 

We all have that one accessory that gives us a boost and makes us feel super confident: That one thing that elevates your look so that you feel powerful and beautiful. What’s key to the one-stop sexy booster is that it’s quick and makes you feel good - think your favourite bright lipstick or fluttery mascara, super cool sunglasses, a statement piece of jewellery, or something that reminds you of a special person. Slip in your handbag when you go out, ready for whenever you need an instant boost of sexiness.

Date yourself 

You can’t underestimate the value of self care - take time to do something fun and relaxing that’s purely for your enjoyment. It could be taking a luxurious bubble bath, or having a massage to relax, it could be nurturing your passions such as a creative hobby or seeing an exhibition, 

or, of course, it could mean indulging in pleasures like a delicious dinner, fabulous wine, and passionate sex (with someone else… or solo). 

Set up a great mirror at home 

Everyone needs a good mirror - especially so you can see how sexy you are. Set up one which does not distort, with great lighting and which you can see your full body in - perfect for finding your sexiest feeling outfits… and for taking intimate photos when you’re feeling gorgeous. 

Seduce yourself 

There’s nothing more confidence-making than loving yourself. Spend time getting to know - and falling in love with - your body, its angles, your favourite outfits and lingerie so that you find the ones which make you feel your most beautiful. Don’t put special negligee on with someone else in mind - put it on because you love yourself in it. Next time you want to treat your lover to it too, you’ll already know how hot you are - and you’ll ooze sexiness like never before. 

Find your sexy uniform 

Think a superhero getup, but oh-so sexy. Put it on and you will instantly transform into your most powerful, sexiest self. Think about which underwear styles or clothes have you feeling your sexiness and turn you on - is it textures like silk, lace or leather? Which lingerie accentuates your cleavage or makes your butt look amazing? Which bra fits your curves absolutely perfectly? Find the outfits that make you feel cool, confident, powerful and gorgeous. Once you know them, you can don them whenever you like and instantly feel your sexiest. Best super power ever.